Have you ever received one of those emails….

when you see a name in your inbox from someone in the past?
Someone you haven't heard from in years and when you see their name you think, is this for real?
Is that really an email from that person?
And you get a little excited with anticipation to open it up and see if it is really them?

That happened to me this week. I saw a name. A name that has meant a lot to me over the years. A name that has brought me great joy when i think it or even say it. Vicente.

It all began about about 9 years ago in la Plaza del Ayuntamiento in Valencia, Spain. It was a normal day for my companion and me out in the streets of the city. Talking with people or rather trying to talk with people but getting that pointer finger waved in our faces time and time again. The familiar words tengo prisa (i'm in a hurry) or no tengo interes (i'm not interested) or just flat out ¡no! (which needs no translation) were ringing in our ears.

With a slow step, we kept on walking. Thinking of how we could have skipped out on contacting that morning and gone to a ward activity. But it wasn't our ward activity. And to go would have been succumbing to that temptation to take the easy road. Which temptation creeps in all to often when you are an exhausted a "tired of being rejected" missionary. But this morning we didn't give in. And here's the reason why.

We were walking toward the bus stop, getting ready to catch the bus back home when I saw an older man sitting on a bench. "Just talk to him," I thought. "Whatever! You know how old men are," went the debate in my mind. "All they do is ramble on about the government and General Franco. It would be a complete waste of time!"
But i soon found my mouth opening to say hello and he actually answered back. Whoa! We kept talking and he listened. Not only that, he was interested in what we had to say! We gave him the first discussion and ended with giving him a pamphlet and inviting him to church that weekend.

As we left, we felt good. But he didn't really want to commit to anything so we figured we'd never see him again. As usual! You can imagine how my jaw thumped on the floor when we saw him walk into our sacrament meeting the next sunday. We soon learned that he had already attended 3 hours of the branch meeting before ours and even stood up to bear his "testimony." He explained that he met us on the street and came and felt good here. He said he was a member of the catholic church but that it bored him–but here he felt the action of learning through the Spirit. Well, you can probably guess how the story goes. We started teaching him with the elders and he was progressing towards baptism. But as all good missionary stories go…it was my time to leave. Not only leave the area, but go home. And so it was bittersweet when i left Valencia knowing that Vicente would be baptised soon, but I wouldn't be there to witness it.

But a sweet gift was sent my way when I was sleeping in my bed one morning and heard the phone ring at about 4 am. It was the Sunday of my homecoming talk. Who would be calling at this crazy hour? I answered the phone and heard Vicente's voice on the other end, telling me he was now a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Words can't describe the joy that ran from the tip of my head to my feet! It was a perfect way to bring to an end the last year and a half of service.

So as you can see, my heart was elated to see Vicente's name in my inbox this week. He sent an email sharing his testimony, his first memories of meeting us in the Plaza that day, and a few photos. I was grinning from ear to ear.

I'll tell you what, getting emails like that….well, it makes your whole year!!  

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heaven help him

i'm totally serious when i tell you that i say a little prayer each day that goes something like this…

please oh please watch over my little boy so he doesn't end up in the emergency room with a cracked skull, gashed flesh, broken bones, or anything of the like. 

why, you might ask? he's a climber, a scaler, a houdini of the death defying sort. i've never had one quite like this. i'm convinced the kid has sticky feet. 

as of yet, we have not had any major catastrophes. but believe me, my heart has dropped to my piggy toes on more than ten occasions. 

his favorite right now is dubbing himself king of the kitchen table by making his way from a chair to the table top and then deciding to take a flying leap off the edge. luckily, my super-human motherly reflexes have managed to save him from an untimely face plant or two. 

so for now, don't plan on any lovely sit down meals around our place.
because all functioning chairs are currently taking a break.

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a conversation between spiders at 507

spider 1: yo dude. you lookin’ for some action?

spider 2: yeah, man. you heard about that Lady who lives here? we’re talking total entertainment, bro. we can get her good. really good. you like screamers? she’s it. 

spider 1:  so, i heard Black Widster dropped on her head and crawled down her arm a few weeks ago. she lost it. yelling, hootin’ and hollerin’ dude. it was hilarious. you can’t find comedy like that.

spider 2:  let’s do it again, yo. Wolf Mama is in town. and she’s got all the kids with her. 

spider 1: okay, you tell Wolfy to hide in the corner of the garage. and when the Lady’s goin’ all crazy trying to spray that tear gas stuff, the babies will launch out at her. 

hundreds of them. 

dude. it’s going to be the party of the year. 

spider 2: rock on. let’s watch the Lady scream. 

spider 1: yo, bro. did we kill her? 

spider 2: yeah, man. i think so.

spider 1 & 2: sweet! (high five) now that’s wholesome family recreation! 

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weekend birthday blast

what do you do when dad is working all week in anaheim and someone is having a birthday on the weekend? stuff the passes in your pocket, pack the kids up in the car, and drive on over to celebrate the birthday with him, of course! i'll take this kind of birthday any day. although i don't think it will ever happen again. but for just this once, it was magical. 

D is now six. and somehow it seems that maturation has happened overnight. his eyes are older. he seems a little wiser. a little more on to my motherly schemes. and a lot more manly or gentlemanly i should say. he's taking after his dad. sensitive. kind. and dare i say, good looking! love this little guy. so glad he was sent to me.   


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a few of the favorite rides…

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and a wall with crazy cool design and acoustics. it may as well have been a ride, they loved it!

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jeff's favorites… ice cream treats. (surprise, surprise.) and the barbershop quartet.

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and lincoln's favorite…

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and my favorite…

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see you again soon, walt!

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silhouettes for nie

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so happy to be part of something to help with Christian and Stephanie's recovery fund! a group of amazing designers at Two Peas got together to design a collaborative fundraising kit with ALL the proceeds going directly to their recovery fund.

it was truly a special experience for me to be able to design and to give what i can of myself to them.we wanted to name it Silhouettes for Nie for a few reasons. One, because i had noticed on Nie's blog that she had silhouettes of her family hanging over the fireplace and two, because Christian was the vocal solo for a song called Silhouttes on their Twyce Around cd. So it only seemed appropriate to call it that!

so if you are into digital scrapping and would like to donate in this way or even if you aren't into digital scrapping and want some lovely goodies to put on your blog or whatever, you can find the Silhouettes for Nie kit here.

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on my mind

no doubt if you are a blog reader, you may have heard about the story of christian & stephanie nielson. their story has circulated far and wide and the outreach to help their family continues to amaze me. i'm pretty sure they have crossed my mind every day since jeff came home and told me about the accident weeks ago. and each time i hurt a little more inside.  

i first met christian back in the day when jeff and i were dating. he was one of jeff's best high school friends. they sang together in a group of six guys–twyce around. jeff pretty much won me over when i heard him sing. and christian, well i don't think i've ever heard a clear and low bass voice as amazing as his. they all got together again at their high school reunion to sing a few old tunes. they picked it up again like they'd never left off. 

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i've been keeping up with their recovery via stephanie's sister's blog hoping and praying that they can be a family again soon. but knowing that life for them has changed forever. and wondering what miracles the Lord is working through them. i know there are many. so many.

i've already experienced my own miracle just a few days ago reading her blog. i read a post from stephanie's brother after he visited them at the hospital. as i read his words, The doctor gave us some good news today – Stephanie's facial surgery went well. They worked on her hands and her face. They were able to preserve her ears and nose. i began to weep. i read it again. her ears and her nose. her ears and her nose. and i wept harder. and my heart changed. at that moment, i was reminded once again that the outward appearance is only a mortal house for our beautiful and eternal spirits. and that she is as beautiful as ever. i know this tragedy that has befell their family has a purpose far beyond our understanding. and it is our opportunity to understand His hand moving among us.
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tired of frosting goatees

so jeff keeps telling me he's tired of frosting goatees. what? hmmm…and i thought he never really read this thing! i guess he does. and i guess he enjoys hearing the random thoughts inside my head that rarely come out in our day to day communication. 

usually when he walks in the door from work, the kids charge him running and screaming. then it's a quick game of "get you" (a game of chasing and more screaming). then it's dinner with a few bits of attempted conversation about the events of our day. which really amounts to "what? i can't hear you, hon. even though you are sitting two feet away from me, but three children are all talking to me at once. how about we talk after they are in bed?" 

and then after they are all snuggled and tucked in their beds, i usually walk toward our bedroom in a catatonic state or downstairs to the kitchen in an attempt to straighten the disaster before the next day begins. but all too often i find myself heading straight for the couch to sit and mumble something about how i should really being doing something productive but i just need to relax for a minute. and then before i know it, i'm mumbling again as i walk up the stairs glancing at the clock and realizing i just wasted half the night sleeping on the couch. and we all know that couch sleep has half the value of bed sleep because you are so uncomfortable and you don't know this until you wake up.  

ah, the joys of young motherhood. they are wonderful days. and i wouldn't trade them for anything! 

so, jeff, if you are reading this…i did want to tell you a few things today that i just never managed to say out loud.
#1. i love you.
#2. i love you more.
#3. i love you more now than i did when i wrote #2.

-cherie

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listen to the blocks

and this is what they are saying…

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something strange has gotten into me this past week. i'm not quite sure what it is or why it is happening but i've found myself wanting to be daring. out of the ordinary. different than my norm. in a word…funky. 

i've been seeing so many fun designs lately. designs that are bold, striking, and not really my usual style. but they make me happy. i recently heard someone say "you can never have a bad day when wearing red shoes." i think that must have registered in my subconscious because i was out shopping a few days ago and found myself looking at red shoes. who me? wear red shoes? never! but somehow i kept looking at them thinking maybe just maybe i could do it. it was quite the process. 
i picked them up. 
put them back. 
then came back a few minutes later. 
should i? 
well, i might as well try them on. 
that can't hurt right?
they fit okay.
nah, i'd never wear them.
but it might be fun.
jeff would laugh.
just be funky, cherie.
just this once. 
and then i put them on the counter ever so hesitantly.
bought them.
and carried them out the door.

and the rest is history!

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black and white

i was looking through some photos last night and came across two from our last trip to california. 

this one.

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and this one.

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i took them on the same night but what different feelings each of them evoke… 

one peace.
one chaos.
one heavenly.
one worldly.
one with true happiness.
one with the counterfeit.

interesting to see them side by side and realize where i really want to be!
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big smiles

just have to say thanks for all the birthday wishes, y'all!! i had some big smiles yesterday with all of your sweet words!

and i also have to say thanks to jeff. i adore him. every little thing about him. i can't believe he took the time to think about and write down all those things. all the little things that have made our relationship what it is. he amazes me with how he just knows how to treat a girl. he has always known. 

it's a gift, i tell you. and i am so lucky he's mine.    

thank you all, again. it's good to have birthdays every once in a while! ;) 
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