six people in april

 

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April was another amazing weather month. We spent almost every afternoon out in the backyard playing until Jeff came home. These photos were taken one of those lovely afternoons.
Here's the normal scenario: Jeff does his trademark horn honk pulling into the garage. The kids go running to greet him. He joins us outside. We swing and play for another half hour until dinner time. I LOVE this time of year.

At the beginning of April everyone had a clean bill of health except Christian. I was convinced he had whooping cough and spent an entire night obsessing that he would be gone by morning. All mothers do this don't they…worry themselves sick? I took him to the doctor early the next day and he had remnants of pneumonia. We came home with medications galore and he was better within days.

Easter was low key for us this year. We spent the weekend at home together. I love having General Conference on Easter Sunday. it allowed us to slow down and really focus on Christ and feel uplifted in every way.

One afternoon Dallin asked me for money for something. I told him he would need to find a way to earn it. He decided a lemonade stand would bring in some dough. I was skeptical that he would make very much, but he was all gung ho. Jeff, Ella and even Lincoln joined him at the entrance to our neighborhood. Jeff said they shouted their little hearts out to the cars passing by. When a car would stop, Ella would exclaim, "a customer!" They arrived back home with gigantic grins and pockets full of change. It was so great to watch Dallin set a goal, work towards it, and set aside his introvert qualities to achieve it. Awesome!

Ella has been into singing "All the Single Ladies" and choreographing her own dance to go with it. Jeff wasn't too thrilled that she had seen the music video. Me…I really wish I could still dance at all. 🙂

Christian is the master army crawler. He makes a beeline for the pantry whenever he has a chance. We should have had a camouflage design painted on his helmet. That would be the ultimate.

Lincoln's favorite food is a "horn" dog. 🙂 still laughing about that one.

I threw my insecurities to the wind and entered a photography contest. I really had no thought of winning and I was completely shocked and ecstatic to see my photo in first place. I also worked through some lame times trying to battle my weaknesses. The critical voice in my head can be paralyzing. I am so hard on myself. Controlling my thoughts is key.

Jeff got a new position at work that gives him a bit less stress. I am over the moon about this. Late nights and the end of the month took a huge toll on all of us. Hallelujah!

We ended the month with an anniversary trip to the Salt Lake Temple. We haven't been back inside since we were married there. It's amazing how important it is to keep the flame alive in our relationship. Jeff is so good at it. It has taken me almost ten years to get past my shyness/embarrassment when it comes to expressing affection. I've always felt so awkward. But I'm convinced that showing our love is a healthy thing. Not only for me but for our children. They need to see it and feel it expressed in the right ways. Jeff is obviously nodding his head right about now. I am lucky to have him…lucky is a understatement.

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the workplace

we love jeff's workplace. it's pretty cool.
not only does he get to work with family and friends, but there is also an indoor football field just a few steps away from his desk. nice. (this might leave one to wonder how much work actually gets done). 🙂

it also makes for an awesome place for our family to hang out. we've spent our fair share of nights there playing while jeff finishes up with work.

now it just got a little cooler.
my sister-in-law has been working on a design project there for many months. and it is finally coming to a completion. hoo-rah!

she has done an amazing job. well done, amy!

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those hours

you know those hours.
every mother knows those hours.
the hours of the day when things seem to come unglued.
somewhere in the middle of 4 and 6pm…or the bewitching hours, as i call them.

people are cranky. people are tired. there is a squabble around every corner.

and you wish these hours would simply disappear. 

but they don't. and they won't. and they shouldn't.

because these hours are so much more important than i give them credit for.

i have a wonderful friend who gave me some advice about these hours. they are the crossroads of the day. children are coming home from school. little ones might be waking from naps. dads are coming home from work. the things that have drawn us apart during the day are over and our paths are coming back together.

to home.

these are the hours that count. these are the hours when i need to be at the top of my game. not checked out…hoping for an early bedtime. these hours shouldn't be so filled with busyness that we don't have time to talk. and they shouldn't be so empty that we want to strangle each other.

these are hours to listen. to play. to share. to teach. to learn.

to love.

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six people

i've decided to do this. i've been hesitant to jump on board because i figured i could never manage to get us all in a photo without causing unnecessary stress. but no more. if i make it a priority, it will happen. and it's not going to be stressful. it's just going to be us. however we are. i'm a little late with march but here it is.

this is our six people project. 

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march started with sickness and ended the same way. it has circled through each of us twice. only jeff was spared. lucky him.

after over a year and a half of going the rounds with doctors and evaluations of lincoln's torticollis, we may have found an answer. i cried the whole way home from the appointment. mostly in gratitude for receiving an answer. i'm still skeptical but i have hope.

ella turned 5 with a bang. her party was my pet project. with all of the combined celebrations, i think her birthday lasted for 3 weeks. lucky her.

spring break took us to california and utah. on a saturday at 5pm, i told jeff i wanted to get outta town. he obliged my spontaneity and we packed and left by 8pm. mental note: driving through the night is not fun. being spontaneous can sometimes equal being stupid.

we spent ella's birthday in cali and then headed utah to celebrate my mom's b-day with her. lots of driving. lots of great conversations with jeff. realized that we love the journey together…wherever we are going.

then we brought grandma and grandpa back to arizona with us. grandpa is an amazing handy man. he fixed all of our broken things and even planted a garden. i love my parents.

i also love arizona in march. the weather is heavenly. …but hell is around the corner. i need a serious attitude adjustment about the summer. it is unbecoming of me. i am promising from this time forward to be cheerful. complaining brings nothing but cankles.

we've had more family photos this month than in two years. thanks to a photo booth outside of Last Chance and grandma. she took our picture this month in our easter festives. we look pretty much the same as two years ago…plus one child. 🙂

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baby hungry

yes. i'm completely baby hungry.

for this little guy…

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if i could freeze him just like this, i would do it in a heartbeat.

9 months is perfectly perfect.

and when i get baby hungry, it will be for this baby right here.

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i even like the helmet. frames his face just perfectly.

did i mention he is perfect?

sigh…he really is.

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