my walls will never be the same.

i love pictures of my family together. love love love LOVE THEM!!! 

but alas, usually i am the one behind the camera so we are short one person. which doesn't bother me but when i get the chance to capture my whole family on camera. well, that just sends me to the moon and back and there again. i love catching a glimpse of us at a moment in time. whatever that moment is. it just makes me happy to know that we are a family. mom, dad, sister, brothers. and we love each other unconditionally. even when one of us teases the other. or bites the other. or makes the other cry. or frustrates the other. 

none of that really matters when you get to eat donuts together. not to mention rainbow sprinkled donuts.

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we had the swell opportunity of getting some family pictures taken by my favorite photog ever, tara whitney. somehow she just creates the magic i crave in photos. probably her easy going style is what makes it happen. just like these pictures. we had no intention of getting photos of us eating donuts. but while we were standing in the alley next door, the kids saw a donut shop. and you know, can you ever say no to the call of a donut? 
first thought was to say, "hey if you be good, we'll bring you back here when we're done." but tara was cool with us taking them right then. now my walls will never be the same. for more reasons than many. 
i love these. i love us. i love donuts. what could be better than that? 

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blog renamed: oh the places he goes.

so i think i need to rename the blog–oh the places he goes. since most posts as of late consist of the crazy things i find my son doing, it sounds only fitting.

today's crazy stunt: 

i'm in the kitchen and decide to give buster (as i call him) some beaters to play with while i finish the laundry. i figure he's never touched them before so they'll occupy him for a good ten minutes. just enough time for me to move clothes from the washer to the dryer and put in a new load. i go into the laundry room about 50 feet away. all is well. then i hear a clank. which i figure is him banging the beater on something. i turn around. and where is he? he's sitting in my kitchen sink. 

how the kid does it so stealthily quiet is beyond me. i have to smile. he sure livens up my day!

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feelin’ the love.

just got home from the land of hilarious mormon billboards. every time we go i find myself actually looking forward to seeing what comical marketing we will see on the roads. sometimes i cringe. sometimes i laugh. my favorite this time…a billboard introducing the benefits of carpooling. the slogan…welcome to the promised lane. catchy, no? 🙂

aside from that, i adore taking trips to utah during this time of year. that's no secret of course. it does my body good to soak in the climate and even more so to spend good times with my family. the reason for our trip this time was this young man right here.

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he's leaving on a mission. so it gave us all a great excuse to gather and feel the love! no trip would be complete without a hoard of pictures. and this time is no different. i love capturing my family together. 

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picking berries with grandpa

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surfing at flow rider. like father, like son!

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the wagon was not a hit!

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goodbye utah! we're anxiously awaiting the next batch of mormon ads you've got for us!
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finally fall

in our home, there is one sure indication that it is finally fall…

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when i whip up a batch of these puppies, it is a sign to all that i am welcoming in the drop in temperature (ever slight that it is here) and getting geared up for my beloved time of year. the smell of pumpkin cookies wafting through the air always makes me giddy. now all i need to top it off is spiced cider from trader joe's. then all will be well with the world.

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(here's a link to those hobble creek candles just in case you wanted the info. and i also tried to answer your questions in the comments from the last post. hope it helps!)
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the trouble with tuna

sometimes i get to thinking my day-to-day blog posts are pretty trivial when compared to life events that are much more important (i.e. stephanie and christian's recovery, etc.).  then i sit back and think, but hey, this is what life is all about. a combination of the insignificant mixed with the meaningful and a little bit silly but sometimes grave sprinkled on top. it's being able to look at all of these things in perspective that helps us enjoy life.

that leads me to today's post. which is downright silly. but that is what's happening in my life today.

jeff has tunafishaphobia (an intense fear of tuna fish). he will not admit it, of this i am sure. and maybe it's a little harsh to call it a fear. but in any case this is what happens EVERY time a can of tuna is cracked inside the walls of our home. 

jeff:  with a look of great distain as if he is going to wither up and die "what's that smell? is that tuna fish?"

me: "yes jeff, it's tuna fish."

jeff: "where did you put the can?"

me: "in the sink."

jeff: "you really should rinse it out."

me: "jeff, i swear you have PTSD from your college roommates leaving tuna fish cans in the trash."

jeff: having a flashback to The Pad (nickmame for his BYU dwelling), "it would rot in there. nasty."

me: "rest assured, hon, i will dispose of this tuna can properly."

jeff: holds his breath and quickly bolts out the door to work secretly hoping that the smell will not be there when he returns home. 

and so i whipped this out today just for him.

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by the way, this is my FAVORITE candle of all time (hobble creek wassail). rhonna introduced me to it and it's been a fall staple ever since. i have made trips to Utah just for this candle. well, sort of. 

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oh, and did i mention…

that he also plays the piano.

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(p.s. lest you think that i give him free reign to put himself in peril every day, this happened while i was using the little girls room this morning. yes, i do momentarily take my eyes off him. perhaps i'll have to start using a porta-potty!)

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Have you ever received one of those emails….

when you see a name in your inbox from someone in the past?
Someone you haven't heard from in years and when you see their name you think, is this for real?
Is that really an email from that person?
And you get a little excited with anticipation to open it up and see if it is really them?

That happened to me this week. I saw a name. A name that has meant a lot to me over the years. A name that has brought me great joy when i think it or even say it. Vicente.

It all began about about 9 years ago in la Plaza del Ayuntamiento in Valencia, Spain. It was a normal day for my companion and me out in the streets of the city. Talking with people or rather trying to talk with people but getting that pointer finger waved in our faces time and time again. The familiar words tengo prisa (i'm in a hurry) or no tengo interes (i'm not interested) or just flat out ¡no! (which needs no translation) were ringing in our ears.

With a slow step, we kept on walking. Thinking of how we could have skipped out on contacting that morning and gone to a ward activity. But it wasn't our ward activity. And to go would have been succumbing to that temptation to take the easy road. Which temptation creeps in all to often when you are an exhausted a "tired of being rejected" missionary. But this morning we didn't give in. And here's the reason why.

We were walking toward the bus stop, getting ready to catch the bus back home when I saw an older man sitting on a bench. "Just talk to him," I thought. "Whatever! You know how old men are," went the debate in my mind. "All they do is ramble on about the government and General Franco. It would be a complete waste of time!"
But i soon found my mouth opening to say hello and he actually answered back. Whoa! We kept talking and he listened. Not only that, he was interested in what we had to say! We gave him the first discussion and ended with giving him a pamphlet and inviting him to church that weekend.

As we left, we felt good. But he didn't really want to commit to anything so we figured we'd never see him again. As usual! You can imagine how my jaw thumped on the floor when we saw him walk into our sacrament meeting the next sunday. We soon learned that he had already attended 3 hours of the branch meeting before ours and even stood up to bear his "testimony." He explained that he met us on the street and came and felt good here. He said he was a member of the catholic church but that it bored him–but here he felt the action of learning through the Spirit. Well, you can probably guess how the story goes. We started teaching him with the elders and he was progressing towards baptism. But as all good missionary stories go…it was my time to leave. Not only leave the area, but go home. And so it was bittersweet when i left Valencia knowing that Vicente would be baptised soon, but I wouldn't be there to witness it.

But a sweet gift was sent my way when I was sleeping in my bed one morning and heard the phone ring at about 4 am. It was the Sunday of my homecoming talk. Who would be calling at this crazy hour? I answered the phone and heard Vicente's voice on the other end, telling me he was now a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Words can't describe the joy that ran from the tip of my head to my feet! It was a perfect way to bring to an end the last year and a half of service.

So as you can see, my heart was elated to see Vicente's name in my inbox this week. He sent an email sharing his testimony, his first memories of meeting us in the Plaza that day, and a few photos. I was grinning from ear to ear.

I'll tell you what, getting emails like that….well, it makes your whole year!!  

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heaven help him

i'm totally serious when i tell you that i say a little prayer each day that goes something like this…

please oh please watch over my little boy so he doesn't end up in the emergency room with a cracked skull, gashed flesh, broken bones, or anything of the like. 

why, you might ask? he's a climber, a scaler, a houdini of the death defying sort. i've never had one quite like this. i'm convinced the kid has sticky feet. 

as of yet, we have not had any major catastrophes. but believe me, my heart has dropped to my piggy toes on more than ten occasions. 

his favorite right now is dubbing himself king of the kitchen table by making his way from a chair to the table top and then deciding to take a flying leap off the edge. luckily, my super-human motherly reflexes have managed to save him from an untimely face plant or two. 

so for now, don't plan on any lovely sit down meals around our place.
because all functioning chairs are currently taking a break.

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a conversation between spiders at 507

spider 1: yo dude. you lookin’ for some action?

spider 2: yeah, man. you heard about that Lady who lives here? we’re talking total entertainment, bro. we can get her good. really good. you like screamers? she’s it. 

spider 1:  so, i heard Black Widster dropped on her head and crawled down her arm a few weeks ago. she lost it. yelling, hootin’ and hollerin’ dude. it was hilarious. you can’t find comedy like that.

spider 2:  let’s do it again, yo. Wolf Mama is in town. and she’s got all the kids with her. 

spider 1: okay, you tell Wolfy to hide in the corner of the garage. and when the Lady’s goin’ all crazy trying to spray that tear gas stuff, the babies will launch out at her. 

hundreds of them. 

dude. it’s going to be the party of the year. 

spider 2: rock on. let’s watch the Lady scream. 

spider 1: yo, bro. did we kill her? 

spider 2: yeah, man. i think so.

spider 1 & 2: sweet! (high five) now that’s wholesome family recreation! 

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